Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Inhibitions

According to Webster - inhibition means the blocking or holding back of one psychological process by another.

Or to consciously or unconsciously suppress or restrain from unacceptable behavior.

Now the first question which comes to mind is - Who decides it is unacceptable behavior?

If you and your lover want to try something new and it's not hurting anyone else, why is that unacceptable?

Most people are afraid to venture into uncharted waters for fear of being laughed at or looked upon with disgust.

But between lovers, there needs to be an open communication which allows for a little excitement and trust. If a couple agrees to try out bondage, and have a free word to end the fun. Why shouldn't they go for it?

Don't let other people's views of what's proper in the bedroom ruin your fun.

Let loose and have a day full of fun-loving sex.

Anita

Friday, January 16, 2009

Friends - Don't Lose Them

I like so many other people have lost friends when they became involved with a new guy. And well once they got married the friendship fell by the wayside.

Yes, I know he is your world but you have to remember you old world too.

These friends saw you through bad relationships and the pains of loneness.

Straightly enough, some friends dump a married friend because they feel you no longer have anything in common. Not true, but it happens.

Talk to your friends and let them know how you feel about keep them in your life.

Explain to your lover, husband, or boyfriend, that they are important to you.

Someone to talk to outside of your relationship is a gold mine you don't want to lose.

Have an awesome weekend full of fun-loving sex,

Anita

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Exciting News for the Week

Black Dragon's Moon was released yesterday - Jan. 9

You can pick it up at the Wild Rose Press.

Here is the link:


To Purchase Black Dragon's Moon




Also found out Black Dragon's Blood was nominated for best erotica in 2008 at the Preditors & Editors Readers' Poll.

Voting ends Jan. 14. if you liked to vote here is the link:

PrePoll for Preditors and Editors

It looks like its going to be a great new year.

Anita

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Uncluttering Your Love Life

As the topic of the month for my blog, I'm hoping to explore some of the many ways in which we not only clutter up our life but create problems for our love life.

Here are a few areas I thought we'd explore.

Expectations - yours, your lovers and the many people around you.

Commitments - work, family, friends

Junk, the everything pile, where I place an odd assortment of stuff that doesn't really fit anywhere.

Stay tuned and declutter your life.


Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Happy New Year

Love, money, and a little excitement, may they all be yours in the new year.

I'm already looking forward to a number of events.


The second book of my "Black Dragon's series" is due out on Jan. 9, 2009. Black Dragon's Moon will be available at on the wilder side of The Wild Rose Press. Check it out and let me know what you think.





A new opportunity to find everything your looking for.



Have a wonderful time today,

Anita Philmar
http://www.anitaphilmar.com/