Monday, April 30, 2012

Coming tomorrow



BLURB:   Recai Osman: Muslim, philosopher, billionaire and Superhero?

Controversial and daring, Shadow on the Wall details the transformation of Recai Osman from complicated man to Superhero. Forced to witness the cruelty of the Morality Police in his home city of Elih, Turkey, Recai is called upon by the power of the desert to be the vehicle of change. Does he have the strength to answer Allah's call or will his dark past and self doubt stand in his way?

Pulling on his faith in Allah, the friendship of a Jewish father-figure and a deeply held belief that his people deserve better, Recai Osman must become The SandStorm.

In the tradition of books by Margaret Atwood and Salman Rushdie, Shadow on the Wall tackles issues of religion, gender, corruption and the basic human condition. Beautiful and challenging, this is not a book to miss.

Friday, April 27, 2012

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Obsession

"Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man."
Mignon McLaughlin


Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Sparks the Imagination

Now, let's take a look at the Sci-fi movies. They take us to new worlds and introduce us to wild characters. The best part is they dress men and women in skimmy outfits that excite our senses.

The Star Trek and X-Men series are some of my favorites.

How about you, which sci-fi movies do you like?

To check out some of the new movie trailers click on the link

http://www.scifimoviepage.com/trailers/trailers.html

Enjoy your weekend,

Anita

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Adventure with a Vegetable.


We've all heard the joke about how a cucumber is better than a man.

True or false, they can add a new twist to the game.

Give one a try.

Anita

Monday, April 23, 2012

Water Fun



A shower sprayer can be used in many ways to add a little fun. Not only can it relax tired muscles but it can also excited intimate ones.

Aimed at the right place, you can have a very rewarding shower.

Have fun,

Anita

Friday, April 20, 2012

Do it with a Friend


Exercise, have fun, enjoy each other company.

These are times that we share ourselves and grow closer to the ones with love.

Yeah, and if the add benefit is a better life, how can we complain?

Have a great weekend,

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Thursday, April 19, 2012

One Step, Two -- Oh, My

Seeing as I'm on the exercise kick. I decide to talk about alternatives to the TM -

Yes, there are other machines in the gym.

And like most people, I've probably tried them all. Some are better than other.

The bike - does great wonders for your legs, but I never thought they help the rest of my body.

The stair stepper - well - me and that machine grew to hate each other back when I was having problems with my knee.

The ones, I've learn to like over the years are the weight machines.

No, I can't lift a hundred pounds but I do enjoy flexing my muscles.

Give it a shot and see what you think next time you are looking for something beside the mindless routine of walking on the treadmill.

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Can Exercising Be Fun?

Okay, this is a question. I battle with continuously.

Yes, I need to workout. But is sweating fun?

If I'm on the ski slopes working my way down the mountain - the answer is yes.

If I'm on the treadmill (which is work in it's self to get on) - the answer is closer to no.

So how can I change that "no" to a "yes"

Here's some things I've tried -

  • Music - got to have it (the louder the better - kills the sound of the TM's motor)
  • Watching a movie - I have to have a very good movie to keep my mind off my feet
  • working weights while I'm walking - thinking about lifting my 3 pound weights and concentrating on my arms and not my feet.
  • even tried slowing the machine down and walking backwards.

That's my list - How about yours? Want to share?

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Work Commitments

Boy, if I didn't have a job I could have so much more fun.

Yet, how would I pay the bills?

Work takes up a large amount of our time and energy. Over-time, deadlines, and business travel can eat into the time we spend with our lover, friends, family.

Learning to balance work and play can be a challenge. Some people handle this better than others. The best thing to do is remember to talk to the people you love and let them know what you're going through. Take time to regroup, then schedule time for what's truly important.

The job maybe important but it can't hold you when you need to cry.

Have a wonderful day full of fun-loving sex,

Anita

Monday, April 16, 2012

Sexy clothes

Now, you could go out and spend a high price on some the sexy.

Or you could just cut off that old pair of jeans into a sexy pair of short shorts.

Your choice.

Anita

Friday, April 13, 2012

The Devil Made Me Do It

Hey, it's friday the 13th. Why not have a little fun and start the weekend off right?

Let you're wild side out to play.

Enjoy,

Anita

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Try Out a new Role

Want to try out some new role-playing in your sex life?

Here are some ideas.

School Teacher and Student: "I'd like you to stay after class for some private tutoring."

Flight Attendant and Passenger: "Coffee, tea,... or me?"

Homeowner and Electrician: "Hurry, I need a spark to light me up!"

Police Officer and Burglar: "Spread 'em!"

Firefighter and Frightened Citizen: "Let me get my hose and put your fire out."

Photographer and Subject: "Why don't we try some with your clothes off...smile."

Madonna and Adoring Fan: "Get into the groove, boy, you've got to prove your love to me."




Have fun,

Anita

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Unexpected Gift

No one says you have to wait until Christmas or your lover's birthday to give them something special.

Try giving her something sexy when you aren’t expect sex immediately.

Not only does it make her wait, but it adds to the anticipation of when she will wear it.

Make the everyday fun and spice up your love life,


Anita Philmar
www.anitaphilmar.com

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Imagination Fever

It's Spring and love is in the air.

Why not set your imagination wild and enjoy some of those fantasies you've been dreaming about.

Pirates, sailors, policemen and football players, no matter your choice. Let your lover know your desires and come up with a game together that you can play.

Once you kick start your fantasies, you both can enjoy a month of fun-loving sex that will help you make it through the long cold winter.

Have an awesome day,

Anita

Monday, April 9, 2012

Create Good Karma

By showing people you care.

If you take the time to compliment your partner for the little things they do. You can create positive energy that can circle back and benefit you.

Be sincere and tell your lover, friends and others something good about themselves today.

Have a great day, full of fun, love and sex.

Anita Philmar

New Review for HotWired


Wow, imagine my surprise to see that I already have a review when this book was just released Fri.

It was hot. It was sexy. It definitely fulfilled it's goal as an entertaining read.

Read the rest of the review at:

http://smittenwithreading.blogspot.com/2012/04/hotwired-by-anita-philmar.html

Anita

www.anitaphilmar.com

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Create a Bag of Fun

Have time for sex, but want something new. On these occasions create a grab bag of fun. You and partner each put ideas in a bag like new positions, sex games, or items to play with.

When you’re at a loss to what to do on your next sexual adventure, pull something from the bag and try out something new. Come up with what goes into the bag can be as fun as taking things out of the bag.

Have a great day, full of fun, love and sex.

Anita Philmar

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

My Kids Are Killing My Love Life

Anyone with kids could have probably said this at one point or another.

Now, the trick is finding time for each other as well as sex.

Some people plan it out and have a regular time they count on being together.

A weekly date, where a babysitter comes in and takes care of the child/children. My question for this one is do you grab a quickie in the backseat of the car or rent a hotel room for a few hours?

Neither is a permanent solution.

Most people try to work it in when they can. The kids go to sleep early. Yeah, that's our time.

Both boys are at boy scouts - Let's take advantage of the free time and jump into bed.

Again, this might work for awhile but schedules change.

The best advice I can give is be open to opportunities. Try to schedule time together and let your kids know you want time alone with your significant other. If it works out - great. If not - try waking up a few minutes early or staying up a few minutes later.

Where there's a will, there is a way.

Anita

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Same Bat Time, Same Bat Channel

Ten o’clock on Tuesday night, it must be time to have a little fun.

While this can be a way of making sure you make time for your lover. Why not change it up?

So it’s six am on Thursday, you woke up a little early.

Why not see how a little romp in the hay might improve your day?

Being flexible might open a whole new world of possibilities.

Add a little fun, a little love and a little sex anyway you can.

Anita Philmar

Monday, April 2, 2012

Inspiration -

 A ship in a harbor is safe,
but that's not what ships are built for.


Explore the world and discover all types of wonders.

Have a great week,

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com