Anyone with kids could have probably said this at one point or another.
Now, the trick is finding time for each other as well as sex.
Some people plan it out and have a regular time they count on being together.
A weekly date, where a babysitter comes in and takes care of the child/children. My question for this one is do you grab a quickie in the backseat of the car or rent a hotel room for a few hours?
Neither is a permanent solution.
Most people try to work it in when they can. The kids go to sleep early. Yeah, that's our time.
Both boys are at boy scouts - Let's take advantage of the free time and jump into bed.
Again, this might work for awhile but schedules change.
The best advice I can give is be open to opportunities. Try to schedule time together and let your kids know you want time alone with your significant other. If it works out - great. If not - try waking up a few minutes early or staying up a few minutes later.
Where there's a will, there is a way.
Anita
No comments:
Post a Comment