Admit it, being in a relationship is hard, but if you follow a few simple tips you can find happiness.
Share a common dream – when two people join
together to reach a unified goal. It connects them in ways that inspires
trust. This can be as simple as planning
a vacation or deciding on a new car, or as big as having a family.
Choose each other as your
first family
– once two people get married they both need to remember that the other person
should now become their main concern. This is not to say you avoid his or her
family but that you need time alone together.
Learn how to fight right – It can be easy to take
your stress out on your spouse. Try to recognize those times when you are not
at your best, then warn your partner you need time to regroup before discussing
certain subjects.
Find a balance
between time for two and time for you – Just because you are now with
someone doesn’t mean you can’t have time for yourself. Each of you came into
the relationship with interest that attracted the other. You still need that
creative outlet to fuel your soul. Give yourself the time for yourself so you
can be the person your spouse fell in love with.
Build a best friendship – if the two of you can
become best friends then you’ll be closer to achieve the relationship you both
want and can face down the major challenge in your life together.
Anita
Philmar
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