Anita's Sexy Ideas for the Holidays, #Fun #recipes and #naughtyideas

Okay, it is the holidays and there are parties to go to and people to see, but remember to have a little fun with your honey too.

How about a fire with a cup of eggnog?

If you're looking to make some eggnog here's a place to get a recipe. http://www.eggnogrecipe.net/
Personally, it just easier to buy it at the grocery store and add whatever type of liquor you prefer to it.

What about baking some cookies together?


Get out the sprinkles, frosting, and candy pieces...slip your favorite teddy on under your sweatshirt and let your lover unwrap you in the kitchen and decorate you with tasty treats.

Or maybe if

The Christmas tree is already up why not turn off the overhead lights and watch the tree lights while listening to Christmas music. Remember the quiet times together are just as important as the busy fun times. After all, when was the last time that you made love on the couch...under the Christmas tree?

Have a wonderful holiday season.

Anita
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Anita's Naughty Friday Ideas for a Wicked Weekend

A few ideas to spark some excitement in your weekend.

 (by the way http://www.fredericks.com is having a sale.)

Go commando.

Going pantyless keeps you in touch with the sexy zones of your body.  Men were boxer to so they can hang free.  Women should do the same to reduce the risk of vaginal infections and remind themselves that they have an appetite for sex too.

Switch the time

Ten o’clock on Tuesday night, it must be time to have a little fun.

While this can be a way of making sure you make time for your lover.  Why not change it up?

So it’s six o’clock on Thursday morning, you woke up a little early.

Why not see how a little romp in the hay might improve your day?

Be flexible in your schedule might open a whole world of possibilities for a little extra fun.

Shop with your lover

Take a virtual trip to an online adult store and check out the toys, the outfits, and the fun items you can get.

It can be as simple as edible body paint or a silky teddy.  It will get you both think about sex and all the fun that can be had with each other.

Even adults need a toy box.  

Need more ideas visit my Spice It Up Blog for a Romantic Idea every day.
http://anitaphilmar.wordpress.com/

Hope you have a wonderful weekend,

Anita

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In Need of Eye Candy?

Would you like to swing on a star?
Carry moon beams home in a jar?

Looking for something to do?

Want to go a few rounds?

All of these men look ready to fill your dreams of a hot night.

Or better yet find a hottie of your own to light up the sheets.


Hope you have a great weekend,

Anita

Need Ideas to Spice Up Your Love Life - Read

I can't tell you how many people have told me they have no imagination.

Well, you don't need one as long as you can read. Every erotica/romance book out there can give you ideas as to how to Spice Up Your Love Life.

In my book, Black Dragon's Blood, they make love in the kitchen, in a spa, in a car. That should give you some ideas as to different locations.

What about positions?

Yes, you might not be a gymnast, but a simple modification of form can add a little extra pressure to the right place to increase yours or your lover's pleasure.

If nothing else, reading a hot story might put you in the mood.

Give it a try and let your imagination go wild.

And here are a few free reads that might help.

http://www.amazon.com/A-Gentleman-Cowboy-ebook/dp/B00C126RFM/ref=sr_1_4?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1366384392&sr=1-4&keywords=a+gentleman+and+a+cowboy

http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/256801

http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/289004

Have an awesome weekend,

Anita

Have a Naughty Night

Okay, it's almost the end of winter and those cold night are going to get hot.

Why not heat them up with a fire and a hot romantic night?

Let's set the mood by building a fire, turning on some romantic music.

http://youtu.be/3JWTaaS7LdU


Add a sexy outfit

Now, you are ready for a quiet night with your lover.

Still worried about what to say?

Why not share your favorite fantasy? Maybe, do a little wrestling?

Don't ask if you look fat or if this is relationship is going anywhere unless you want things to go downhill fast.

Instead, talk about what feels good and how you enjoy pleasing you're lover.

Hope this recipe for a hot evening works for you,

Anita

Anita's Naughty Ideas for the Weekend

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Celebrate the love - Romantic tips

With spring in the air and flowers bloom, it is the perfect time to celebrate love.

1. Get out and enjoy a picnic with your lover. Spread out a blanket and hold hands while staring up at the sky.

2. Pick some wild flowers and take them home to your sweetheart. (my favorite are indian paintbrushes.)

3. Play a game of tag, do one says you have to run fast (It's more fun to get caught)

4. Dig out those short, shorts and do a little modeling for the coming seasons. Do a little strip teases between each outfit.

5. Share a bowl of ice cream.

As you can see it doesn't have to be anything big. Just time together can built a lasting relationship of fun and joy.

Thought for the day,


"Sex appeal is something that you feel deep down inside. It's suggested rather than shown. I'm not as well-stacked as Sophia Loren or Gina Lollobrigida, but there is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don't need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain." quote from Audrey Hepburn.

Have a wonderful weekend,

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Tell Me Your Fantasy...

We all wish for that perfect night where everything clicks off like a dream.

Can it happen?

Who cares, it just fun to imagine it.

So lets start with a sexy guy

add in a little fun and sun

Now where do you want to go from here?

Feel free to share.

I'll go first to get the juices flowing.

The sound of the surf wakes me and I look out of my bungalow to see the sun rise.

Only to have that beautiful view fall into the shadows of the man carrying a tray toward me.

He's hot, sexy and only wearing a small piece of cloth over an enticing bulge.

The smell of food reaches my senses just as he steps next to the bed.

Wow, which one am I more hungry for? Breakfast or the man?

He set the tray on the night stand and answers the question for me by offering me a nice plump strawberry.

I bite into it and he quickly covers my lips with his. A battle for the prize send our kiss into new territory.

This continues with each bite he gives me. Another piece of fruit is follow with a touch, a lick, a caress. Soon, he is feasting on my body and I'm screaming with pleasure.

Man, what a way to wake up.

Now, it's your turn.

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Friday Naughty Ideas

While out scan the horizon for interesting articles to read, I came across this one.

And well... to be honest I found if very intriguing, funny, and also helpful for those people who might want to try one of these clever toys.

 http://www.ranker.com/list/the-7-greatest-homemade-sex-toys-for-men/greg



Ideas for a romantic weekend



Sexy Comments & Profile Graphics

Slip on a pair of tight jeans and add a hat... (doesn't have to be a cowboy hat just make it fun)



Sexy Comments & Profile Graphics

Yeah, take off your clothes and lay on feathers.

Try a hot read and a glass of wine for a wonderful evening.

Have a great weekend,

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Is Fighting Part of the Fun?

"No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens."

Abraham Lincoln




So how about a little fantasy of going a few rounds with your lover?

I'm not encouraging a fight where anyone gets hurt. In the contest I'm suggesting, both parties win.

If you've ever watched a wrestling match, it's hard not to imagine how much fun it could be to try out the positions with your lover.

Lay down the rules before you get starts so no one gets hurt, then see how much fun you can have rolling around on the floor with your partner. 

Whoever lays on top, it doesn't matter. You both can win.


Remember to have fun with your lover this weekend, Valentines' Day is just around the corner.



Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Go Without A Bra

While surfing the web today, I ran across several articles talking about how bras might cause cancer.

As anyone who has spent more than five minutes in one can attest to a bra can be very uncomfortable at time. It depends on a number of things like if they are too tight, have an underwire, the type of fabric, but most of us strap one on every morning.

So when I saw this about causing cancer, well I thought I'd been set free.

Whoa, hold the twins, not such an easy decision after all.

According to this article http://www.health2us.com/bra.htm
bras are causing women to have weak breasts and therefore causing a problem with the tissue of the breast. 

After looking farther and looking for the true story, I found breast cancer has been around a lot longer than bras, sooooo as much as we would like to blame it on the devise. Experts disagree with the assumptions in Sydney Ross Singer and Soma Grismaijer book in 1995 titled, "Dressed to Kill."

Here is one article which puts the no bra myth to bed. http://breastcancer.about.com/od/riskfactorsindetail/a/bras-breast-cancer.htm
But I personally feel a little free time from my bra is worth exploring so ladies can I say "Here's to a day without my bra."

And the add benefit is my husband doesn't mind at all.

- Sex tip of the day - free yourself of your bra and enjoy a little extra fun with your lover.

Have a great day,

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Anita's Naughty Advice - Need an extra hand

Birds of a feather stick together, meaning they do things together.

So let's kick off the new year with a few naughty events that can spark of your love life.

Yes, you're busy, but writing a few emails and texing them to your lover shouldn't take to long.

Now, what to say?

Here's a few suggestion -
Up for some fun?
Want to meet me somewhere fun...bed?
Need an extra hand on a delicate spot?
Feeling horny?

You get the drift.

Not, your thing...how about play a game tonight instead of sitting in front of the tv.
Strip poker or skipbo. This doesn't have to be a sexual activity it just about changing things up and find time to connect.

Remember to
talk, hold hands, touch, laugh, hug, kiss, find ways to let the other person know you want to be close to them. Next thing you know, you'll be dancing between the sheets.


Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Anita's End of Year Naughty Treats

Let's start with a items on clearance.

http://spurst.com/clearance?gclid=CIO2962MxbQCFad_QgodnisA6A

A girl can never have too many fun items to wear to tempt her lover.

Then let's see if we can tempt those taste buds.

Chocolate Chip Dip

Ingredients

(8 ounces) cream cheese, softened

1/2 cup butter, softened

3/4 cup confectioners' sugar

2 tablespoons brown sugar

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1 cup (6 ounces) miniature semisweet chocolate chips

Graham cracker sticks

Directions

• In a small bowl, beat cream cheese and butter until light and fluffy. Add the sugars and vanilla; beat until smooth. Stir in chocolate chips. Serve with graham cracker sticks. Yield: 2 cups.

copied this recipe from

http://www.tasteofhome.com/Recipes/Chocolate-Chip-Dip

Or just forget the graham cracker and rub it on your lover so you can lick it off.

Now that's a perfect way to ring in the New Year.

And to add a little fun to the party.

Why not play http://youtu.be/y3ii-Df1Hs8

Even if you can't get away, you can dream about it with your lover.


Hope the New Year brings you lots of naughty fun,

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

Anita's A Night Before Christmas

It was the night before Christmas

and the house was quiet.

The prefect time for all naughty girls and boys to play.

So in white lace and red velvet,

a sexy girl stood near the decorated tree.

Her jolly young stud joined  her there, 

all he wore was a small leather g-string.

"Now what should we do on this memorable night?"

A wicked grin covered his handsome face,
and he spread out a blanket on the carpet floor.

With fire burning hot in the fireplace nearby, he proceed to unwrap his sensuous gift.

and what to his wondering eyes should appear but two gorgeous tight peaks just begging for a lick, kiss, and a whole lot more.

A moan, a cry, a hungry "pleaseee" rang through the room.

And he couldn't turn down the offer of so much more.

She proceed to unveil the prize hidden beneath his shrinking g-string and cupped the gift in both of her hands.

"Oh, but I need to sample my special treat." She drew her tongue down the length and sucked on the end of the candy cane end.

He rocked and wiggle and begged for some relief, but she played and teased until he laid her down on his blanket on the floor. There they enjoyed the please of each other until they both screamed the words all the world was singing into the night.

"Merry Christmas my love, and may everyone enjoy what we did tonight."

Have a good one,

Anita
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Anita's Naughty Ideas for the Weekend

I am so ready to get this week over and onto the fun of having two days to play in bed.

Hungry - There are a number of interesting foods that can be enjoyed while having fun with your partner.

Honey, chocolates, fruit, and all sorts of wines.   Pull these out the next time you want to spice up your sex life and see all the interesting places these items can take you and your lover.

Can't stay away from the computer?

Well Friday is the end of my blog tour  visit http://steamyside.blogspot.com so be sure to leave a comment for a chance to win an amazon gift certificate.

Need a hot read now?

Download "Hot Prairie Nights" for free at https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/256801

or check out my latest release Naked Rebel

 http://www.amazon.com/Naked-Rebel-ebook/dp/B00AHKJB0I/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1354669649&sr=1-3&keywords=Naked+Rebel

No?

Then why not try a virtual trip to an online adult store and check out the toys, the outfits, and the fun items you can get.

http://www.fredericks.com/View_All_Lingerie/li27,default,sc.html

It can be as simple as edible body paint or a silky teddy.  It will get you both think about all the fun that can be had with each other.

Even adults need a toy box.  

It really doesn't matter what you do just make sure to spend some time together.

Enjoy and have a wonderful weekend,

Anita
www.anitaphilmar.com

On Vacation - Don't Leave the Fun Behind

On vacation, and you didn't take your vibrator.

No worries.

Use the non-brush side of your electric tooth brush to have your thrill.

Portable, won't raise eyebrows and will still give you want you need.

Have fun,

Anita